True meaning of connection

Do women ultimately haven't a choice to maintain their integrity as women? Do women actually know that in the end men can't live with just one woman? Or is this just a matter of luck in life and we women can only follow fate without being able to choose while men can? 

I still don't understand the true meaning of connection.

Many people around me end up betraying or being betrayed, especially since I have felt that way. Could that be the reason for me to experience a crisis of confidence in every man? I don't know, all of the above still makes me very confused, basically I still haven't found the answer to whether men really behave like that, is betrayal or not being able to be with one woman their true colors? What should I do, that's always on my mind. 

So far no one has been able to break down my sense of crisis of self-confidence. Until now, the bad stigma about betrayal around me still haunts me. I don't know how long this will continue, but I will still continue to make sure everything will be fine even though it still really bothers me.