Don't be in love with broken-heart man or woman. why ?!

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Long story short '' She got pain in the past, then there is the man tried to show her what pure love really is. but after he gave everything that pure love, all the man got just was pain in the end.'' do you understand what I mean? yes, she hurt him when the man tried to fix the woman's heart. the lesson is don't ever try to fix or want to heal someone's wounds, and act like a hero who will save her from trauma.

My advice is you don't ever have a relationship with someone who has just been destroyed as much as possible from a failed relationship because you will only get a disaster at the end of the relationship. when you have fixed her pain when she recovers she will just leave. believe my words, you have to a relationship with someone who just finished with her past, healed by loving herself and she is ready to open her heart to someone new, just start a relationship with a woman like that, because she is finished with her past and also finished with herself and the problems she has. 

Believe me, being in a relationship with someone who has felt broken or shattered, she will be wiser in a new relationship, indeed she will be more selective and picky in determining a partner, but believe me, the relationship she builds and chooses will not have much drama, there will not be many problems in it, although she will be more vigilant but that is a defense for herself, she becomes more logical than anyone, it doesn't mean she will be more dominant in the relationship, she will appreciate a lot of time with her partner, give respect to her relationship. 

So in my opinion, don't enter the house of someone who is still have wounded in her heart, she is hurt because of the love she failed to build, and it really hurts her much. really don't try to have a relationship with a broken-hearted woman, even though she deserves to be loved again, but this is not the right time, let her heal by herself in her own way, don't try to come in and fix a house that has been destroyed alone, it won't work at all. don't try to guide and be a stick for a blind person who is recovering, when she has recovered and can see, clearly the blind person no longer needs her stick. then you know what it means right ? don't try to be a hero for others. don't learn in the wrong place, enter a heart that is truly ready to accept your love sincerely. and don't love deeply, simplify your love and remember when you love use your logic 60% and your love 40%, or at least make it balanced, so that when you fail in your love you can be wiser in making the decisions you will choose.

Be nice. I can be your summer and autumn at the same times. its depends. - you'll understand if you watching 500 days of summer-

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Anonymous said…
such a beautiful word!
February 26, 2025 at 4:16 AM
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