What I just understood about love in adulthood is that when loving and letting go of a man who is not your destiny is indeed 100 times more painful than before because your adult love expects too much which in fact when loving expects something, you know it will not go well because its consumed by the hope itself.
And now I realize that hope is a lie, hope is an illusion of self that will hurt yourself in the future.
While hope doesn’t fulfill you then the wound you get.
In your adult love when destiny isn’t on your side what you have to do is let go and accept it, the pain is indeed multiplied but this time because you use more logic it will ease the pain that exists. And the bonus is you can recover quickly.
What I see now is that it turns out that women can let go sincerely when they are in the most loving state, letting go and letting the man she loves choose to pursue his dreams, even though it might be just an excuse for the man to separate from her but the woman still loves him. I think that is the highest point in love. Her ambition is no longer to have him, she just wants him to be able to achieve success and all his desires and goals as he wants. Really impulsive, right? But in reality that's how women are, women will give in to their love for the sake of their man's dreams, suppressing the pain she gets while going through the healing process, she will crawl back to life to start celebrating her relationship with a new man.
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