They know nothing

 Tired of being someone who is not considered capable of anything at home, even though the reality at work she is the best. 

 How can they say “what can you do? you can't do anything! "

Although in the context of a joke, is it appropriate to be a joke? even though they don't know what I've done until now, is appropriate ?

They don't see my efforts, they don't see my struggles, They know nothing. Then casually they say it's just a joke.