BAD & GOOD SIDE ABOUT TRAITS OF LOVE BOMBING~

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Has anyone here ever experienced love bombing from someone they just met? You have to be careful in getting to know someone so that you don't misunderstand and go off track. I want to explain and tell you how to deal with love bombing, tell you what love boomers feel, the impacts, the reasons, and how to deal with situations when facing love boomers. 

Is love booming clear? Why can someone experience love bombing? How not to get trapped at the beginning of a relationship? What causes love bombing?  How to overcome it? What should the love boomer generation do? after all just see, listen, judge then made decision for what you should do, go and stay to continue the relationship.


Here is an explanation of love bombing: 


What is Love Bombing? 


Love bombing is a manipulative behavior that someone does to win the heart of another person in an excessive and intense way. They may show excessive attention, affection, and love at the beginning of a relationship to make the other person feel special and loved. 


Why Does Someone Give Love Bombs?

And there is reasons for Love Bombing

A person may engage in love bombing for several reasons. The reasons for love bombing can vary, but some common reasons include:


1. Need for Control: They want to control their partner and make them emotionally dependent.

2. Need for Validation: They have an excessive need for validation and attention.

3. Manipulation: They want to manipulate their partner to get what they want.



How to Avoid Getting Caught Early in a Relationship?

To avoid falling into the love bombing trap, you can do the following:


1. Know Thyself: Understand your personal needs and boundaries.

2. Don't Be Too Fast: Take time to get to know someone better.

3. Pay Attention to Behavior: Observe your partner's behavior and look for signs of manipulation.

4. Effective Communication: Communicate openly and honestly about your feelings and needs.


How to Deal with Love Bombing

To deal with love bombing, you can do the following:


1. Don't Accept Manipulative Behavior: Don't accept manipulative behavior from your partner.

2. Effective Communication: Communicate openly and honestly about your feelings and needs.

3. Set Boundaries: Set clear and firm boundaries in the relationship and have to know about the limitations.


Love Bombing Behavior

A person who is love bombing may exhibit behaviors such as:


1. Excessive Attention: They show excessive and intense attention early in the relationship.

2. Excessive Affection: They show excessive and intense affection early in the relationship.


Seeing, Hearing, Judging & Make decisions

To see, hear, and judge whether someone is love bombing, you can pay attention to the following:


1. See if their behavior is excessive and intense.

2. Once again you have to see if they try to make you not hear about them bad story from anyone. don't ever let they control you.

3. sometimes its ok to jugde so you can make firm and right decisions.



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However, love bombing also has positive benefits and isn’t always bad and sometimes wil ends well because if someone is in love, there is nothing wrong with doing everything at the beginning of the introduction like is normally things when you in relationship. 


I will explain the good side of love bombing. Here is an explanation of the reasons and good sides of a natural and not excessive love bomber:


Reasons for Natural Love Bombers

A person can do natural love bombing for several reasons, such as:


1. Really Like: They really like and are attracted to their partner.

2. Desire to Make Happy: They want to make their partner happy and feel special.

3. Expression of Feelings: They want to express their feelings openly and honestly.


About Good Side of Natural Love Bombers

The good sides of natural love bombers are:


1. They show sincere and not excessive attention.

2. They show true affection and are not manipulative.

3. They communicate effectively and openly about their feelings.

4. They make their partner feel special and appreciated.


Traits of a Natural Love Bomber

The traits of a natural love bomber are:

1. They exhibit consistent and non-overbearing behavior.

2. They communicate openly and honestly about their feelings.

3. They respect their partner’s boundaries and needs.

4. They don’t try to manipulate their partner to get what they want.


Differences with Over-the-Top Love Bombing

The differences between natural love bombing and over-the-top love bombing are:

1. Over-the-top love bombing has a higher intensity and can make the partner feel uncomfortable. 

2. Excessive love bombing often involves manipulation & control, while natural love bombing not.

3. Consistency: Natural love bombing has better consistency and is not excessive.


This, natural love bombing can be an effective way to show attention and affection in a relationship, as long as it is done in a balanced way and not excessive and If your future partner is sincere and truly loves you, he will do well to prove it properly, no need to worry, if you are meant to be together, everything will go well and according to plan.

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