Be Kind- bc our words and actions have the power to impact those around us!

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Sometimes in life, you have to encounter someone who doesn't want you, I know it's hurt you so much for feeling unwanted and a painful reality. But however, isn't always bad; sometimes it motivating you to learn and become a better version of yourself, you gain lot of experience when you meet someone who picky one, you gain valuable experience and insight you truly what you want in life and you can take advantage of that to improve yourself.

One of the most significant lessons I've learned from this journey is that life doesn't always go as planned. Unwanted feelings and emotions can arise, leaving you feeling overwhelmed and vulnerable. But it's essential to remember that these feelings aren't your fault, and nor the other person's fault either. You have the power to choose what you want and the other person has the same freedom to choose.

As I reflect on this journey, I'm reminded of the importance of being wise and taking the best lessons from every experience. On the other hand, one of the greatest gifts in life is meeting people who accept you for who you are, without judgment or condition. This summer has been a rollercoaster of emotions, with its fair share of bitter experiences, but it's also taught me invaluable lessons.

Life is a complex tapestry of beautiful and painful moments, and it's essential to acknowledge that not everything will always be okay. However, it's in these moments of uncertainty that we discover our resilience and capacity for growth. I've found that being friendly to strangers, even when it's not my natural inclination, has been a valuable learning experience. This journey has taught me that even in the midst of messy, there is always the potential for growth and transformation.

As I navigate the complexities of life, I'm reminded that every meeting ultimately leads to a farewell. It's a bittersweet reality that people come and go, and only a few remain. I often wonder why the best people seem to leave first, and why their presence is often fleeting. and even the worst one always last longer. Is this the natural rhythm of life, or is simply the way things are? I don't have the answers, but I'm willing to follow the flow and see where life takes me.

Sometimes, our attempts to heal and move forward don't go as planned. We may intend to recover, but instead we find new wounds. Sometomes It's a shocking reality, but it's also a valuable lesson in resilience and perseverance. When we try to recover from a difficult experience, we may encounter setbacks and challenges. However, it's in these moments that we discover our strength and capacity for growth.

I've come to realize that life may seem unfair at times, but it's not. God gives us valuable lessons to help us grow and become stronger. This afternoon, when I was waiting for pick-up on my way home I had a profound encounter with a stranger who reminded me of the importance of living in the present. He asked me, 'What's happen with that blank stare, what's with those cloudy eyes?' 'You're already in the best place in your city, right? Then why do you fill your beautiful eyes with that emptiness?' His words struck a chord deep within me, and I realized that I had been living in the past, mourning what could have been. But I came to this place with good intentions, to heal and move forward. I thought to myself, 'Do I always wear a gloomy face when I'm alone?' It's a habit I've unconsciously developed, and it's one I'm eager to break.

The stranger's words reminded me to always smile, even in difficult times. His kindness and compassion were a balm to my soul, and I'm grateful for our encounter. he was truly the best person i've ever met, his very friendly with good smile and sparkling eyes, really gave colour and someone hopes. He taught me that not everyone has bad intentions; sometimes, people come into our lives to heal and uplift us. The lesson I've learned from this experience is that our words and actions have the power to impact those around us. We never know what someone is going through, and a simple act of kindness can make all the difference. By being kind, friendly, and polite, will not makes you lose anything, thats also create a more compassionate and empathetic world."



Be nice. I can be your summer and autumn at the same times. its depends. - you'll understand if you watching 500 days of summer-

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