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Has anyone here ever experienced love bombing from someone they just met? You have to be careful in getting to know someone so that you don't misunderstand and go off track. I want to explain and tell you how to deal with love bombing, tell you what love boomers feel, the impacts, the reasons, and how to deal with situations when facing love boomers.   Is love booming clear?  Why can someone experience love bombing?  How not to get trapped at the beginning of a relationship?  What causes love bombing?   How to overcome it?  What should the love boomer generation do? after all just see , listen, judge then made decision for what you should do, go and stay to continue the relationship. Here is an explanation of love bombing:  What is Love Bombing?  Love bombing is a manipulative behavior that someone does to win the heart of another person in an excessive and intense way. They may show excessive attention, affection, and love at the beginning of a r...

In life, sometimes we need romance and find someone to be our partner , but how to make them not look at us badly even though meet in a place that might be called just fun place. And you have to think how to build a positive and trusting relationship. I’m talking like this  It doesn't mean I'm good at approaching, I'm just confused and maybe this method is effective for us to control our feelings so that we don't get caught up in a relationship quickly. Controlling feelings for requires self-awareness, reflection, and a powerful strategy.  Building a Positive and Trusting Relationship When approaching the opposite sex, it's essential to make a good impression and build a positive relationship. To achieve this, you need to understand yourself and your partner, communicate effectively, and be aware of potential red flags. Controlling Your Feelings To avoid getting caught up in a relationship too quickly, it's crucial to control your feelings. Here are some tips to...

I have a complicated thought about how someone is so easily manipulated by someone who always gaslighting and usually the victim will continue to feel guilty for what he didn’t do.   I have a friend who is a victim of gaslighting, he told me that he had realized and fallen into the trap of a gaslighting person.  He said he felt like he was in a nightmare. He always said that he was wrong, that he didn't remember correctly, that he was too sensitive. And he started to doubt his-self, feeling that he was indeed very wrong. But, one day he realized that he was in a gaslighting trap. Then he decided not to get involved in the debate anymore and sought support from his friends including me. From that moment on I also started documenting events and conversations to prove the truth whether he was really a victim of gaslighting. But I realized that I had no right to judge someone or a victim of gaslighting, maybe he really needed help. But in fact he needed help to get out of the trap...